15 Good Questions To Ask Your Crush 2023

Talking to your crush is no piece of a cake and it’s definitely not everyone’s cup of tea. So it’s normal to feel nervous but it’s important that you calm yourself down and come up with good questions to ask your crush. Just remember by “questions” we don’t mean that you interrogate them. The questions should be right, appropriate, and a good conversation starter.
Anyone can feel intimidated by their crush and it naturally becomes hard to start a conversation. And that’s where we have decided to help you. In this article, we have listed a bunch of questions to ask your crush and these questions will definitely be better than those old school boring questions.
Take a look at the list and pick a few questions to ask your crush so that you can get to know them better and have a better understanding of what kind of a person they are. Some of them are pretty light questions for a fun chat while others will lead you to a serious conversation with them.

Questions To Ask Your Crush

1. Who is your celebrity crush?

That’s a pretty good question to ask and you can actually know what kind of people attract them most and what qualities they idolize. For example, if you are asking this question to a guy and he answers Kim Kardashian then you can further ask them why you like them. The answer will tell you what kind of person they are. And you will actually have a better understand of their preferences in people. You can ask them while telling your celebrity crush and then ask who is yours! But again it can be a conversation starter question so try not to judge them too much.

2. What do you think about before sleeping?

Yet again a casual question that will lead you to a meaningful conversation with your crush. Either they plan their next day or they dream about a specific special person in their life. And you can even ask who do you think about before going asleep and if you are lucky then the answer would be you!

3. What’s your biggest turn-off?

In order to know what they like and what they appreciate in another person, it’s important that you what they can’t stand! The question will tell what qualities they are not looking for and what are the things that can make them lose interest in the other person.

4. What are the biggest deal-breaker for you?

It’s kinda a similar question as we have mentioned above, if you still want an answer about they can’t stand then ask this question. You will have a better understanding of your compatibility with that person. So ask the question sometimes and get an idea about their dislikes!

5. What would be your idea for a perfect day?

Everyone has an idea of their perfect day and you can say a lot about them from their idea of a perfect day. Either their perfect day will start early in the morning, followed by a good workout session, include a book or watching a movie and spending time with their special ones. Or their perfect day will start in the noon and followed by Netflix and chilling or partying with their friends. In both ways, you will get a brief idea of their personality.
On the plus side, if you lucky and you two go on a date you can spend “a perfect day” with them as well.

6. What was your first impression of me?

Here is the question everyone wants to ask at some point while talking to their crush. And it’s is a cool question to ask. You can actually find out what they thought of you when you first met them. You can say, “people usually think I am a quiet person but I am not, did you think the same when you first met me?” So you will know what are their thoughts and if they noticed you much on your first meeting.

7. Do you like parties or you are a loner?

You can never know about the person and judging them would be wrong so always make sure what kinda person they are, introvert or extrovert! This will help your future relationship with your crush as you would have a better understanding. You can also know if it’s right to tell your feelings about them in front of your mutual friends or not. They are shy or love to express their feelings and what they expect from others!

8. What is the most important thing in your life right now?

You can know their future plans or what they are afraid of losing right now with this question. See if their important thing includes their friends, family or their materialistic things.

9. If you had all the money and time in the world, what are the three things that you want to do?

It’s hard to know what they actually love to do and this question will give you some insights about that. For example, they can say traveling, cooking, or working out, then you can actually plan your future getaways and dates accordingly.

10. Do you prefer a long term relationship or just casual dating?

This one might be the best question to ask as you would know if they are interested in something serious or they are simply not ready. It’s would be helpful to know what kind of relationship they are looking for.

11. What’s something weird that you find attractive?

Everyone has their weird side and they also like something that others will simply find too weird. It’s hard to make an assumption for a person about what they like or not. For example, they might judge people from their feet or elbows or anything unusual.

12. What’s your biggest fear?

We all have some fears and insecurities. And it’s one of the first things you wanted to know about your crush so that you will be careful in the future. It will help you to know them better and you can also tell your fears if they ask. It will surely strengthen your bond with the person.

13. What’s your priority?

You can actually know what they find the most important thing in their life, either it’s their work, relationship, family or friends. It will tell you what they value the most and you can know if that’s something you can handle. For example, if they say work, don’t ever make them choose between you and their work.

14. Ask them about their last relationship

Now that’s a risky question but you can still try asking it. Either they will say they are not ready to talk about it or they will open up about their past. If they start to talk you can further ask them about the reason why they broke up or if they are over their ex.
These questions might be intimidating but these will significantly help you to know what kind of relationship they are willing to offer and if they are actually ready to have a relationship again or not.

15. Ask them out!

Finally! The question all of you wanna ask. If the above questions suggest that they are ready to go on a date then you can ask them out for a date. If you get lucky they will day, yes and if their answer is no, you can move on.


So these are some of the best questions to as your crush. There are many people who tried to ask these questions and they are proven to be pretty helpful. So don’t stress about what you are gonna talk to your crush anymore!
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